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I’m Back!!

Well, It’s Been a While… I had big plans to clean up the site, remove some things, redesign it and come back with everything looking brand n...

Well hello 2020!

It was only right that I did a blog post with all that is going on in the world. The global pandemic is truly a global shift for everyone. One term that I am loving during all of this is "We are in this together" There is so much commentary regarding this global shift and this health crisis. It can be overwhelming to take it all in, BUT....... I do find comfort that unlike other struggles I've had in my life, this one is different because we are all in this together. That's exactly what this post is about....WE. US. OUR.

God is doing many things with this global shift but one thing that I am seeing greatly is UNITY!

God is bringing HIS people together to seek Him and Hear Him together.

Key word: TOGETHER!!

Don't shy away from your human moments, because unlike any other time in our lifetime everyone feels the effects of this, somehow, some way. Have your moment, but remember to not stay there. I believe that God is speaking something very specific to each and every one of us and there is a global message. Lean IN to him. I went to pay my phone bill and was immediately struck by the CEO of ATT's message:

"I don’t think any of us have ever experienced a situation quite like this one. The coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic has affected virtually every American, upended the engines of commerce, closed schools and some businesses, and disrupted the rhythms of our daily lives."

Everyone, everywhere is somehow affected. This message resonated with me, because it reminded me that we are truly all in this together.

It's so beautiful that we can be transparent and vulnerable during this time. Transparency does not equal defeated. In fact, I am hopeful, prayerful and even excited for what God is doing, but I won't act as if I didn't feel the punches to my business. I feel it, but I won't quit or stop trusting God.

My prayer for you is that despite what you feel, we trust God. Embrace your humanness without neglecting God's goodness. That's it!

Embrace your humanness without neglecting God's goodness.

Now, here's for something random and different from me:

Even though I have kept my content on my social media updated with current looks, my attire during this quarantine has been comfy and cozy! There's my snuggie, my laptop, and comfy socks.

- Wednesday, April 01, 2020

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I have worked with some amazing brands for my blog but, I get the most questions about Shein!

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I think it's amazing to see my readers finding and curating great looks at affordable prices. Last year I wrote a blog post on tips for shopping with Shein. I think it's about time that I post an updated tips list for you all. Below, you will see how items look on the site and how it looks in real life on me.

My hope is that this blog post will answer lingering questions and assist you in your shopping.

Sooooo, let's get to it!!!

Shein Q&A & other things you should know!

Although I receive my clothes from Shein for marketing and blogging purposes the opinions I share will ALWAYS be honest and my own! I LOVE US FOR REAL!!!

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1. Is Shein Real?

Yes, they are a real fast fashion website. The clothes on the site are the what you get in real life. For this particular blog post, I have added the stock photos shown on their site, next to me actually wearing the items to help.

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2. Does Shein fit?
Yes! Shein not only fits, but it fits well. Shein has updated the fit of their clothes and I have found it to be more accurate to American sizes. I typically wear a 1X-2X in my items. (If you are a 14-16, I would suggest a 1X-2X depending on materials.) This jumpsuit is a 2X because I wanted to ensure it fit well. Most of my weight is in my bottom half so I wanted to accommodate these thighs.
Read the reviews and the description for EACH item. Although the sizing is more consistent than it has been, I still suggest reading the reviews. The payoff is major!! You can’t beat the deals and the pieces are a hit!!

3. How long is Shein's shipping?
If you need an item overnight, Shein is NOT your site. On their site it states that standard shipping takes between 6-8 business days, but I have noticed most items arrive within 5 business days. I have noticed Express shipping does take about 4 business days. There have been times items arrive faster, but this has been my typical experience.

4. Do you like Shein?
Believe it or not,I get this question ALL of the time! Here's my honest answer: YES!
Yep, I like Shein for multiple reasons. From a business perspective they are a great company to work with. From a consumer perspective the clothes are on trend with some amazing classics mixed in. It's a great place to shop and the clothes can be worn multiple times. These pieces are NOT 1 time wear items which I can totally appreciate. They sustain washing, cleaning, etc.

5. What's the quality like?
I would say the quality of their clothes may actually surprise you. I would give Shein's items a 7/10 on the quality scale. I have received some items that were 10/10 and other times there may have been an odd lining or lighter weight fabric that took the quality down a bit. Nothing major that would stop me from wearing the brand.

6. Always use a promo code
My last and final tip is to ALWAYS look for a promo code! Always use a promo code for their site. Shein typically has amazing deals that are even better with a promo code. Every time I post a look from Shein, I share my promo code, which changes every season.
My current code “totalq2” expires 6/30/19.