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One of the things I love about the weekly posts of #SundaysWithTot is I have creative control to be as dressy or as casual as I choose. This look in pretty much right in the center and it's my signature! I love the simplistic detail in the top and the skirt that fits my waist perfectly!
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One of the things I love about the weekly posts of #SundaysWithTot is I have creative control to be as dressy or as casual as I choose....
One powerful thing I've learned in life and in fashion is to fight the urge to look perfect. This dress is the prime example of me making a choice to live my best life and accept my body as it is. I do have on shape wear because that's just what I do! My favorite shape wear that I have been wearing for years is by a brand called Miracle Suit.
Even with my shape wear I am becoming comfortable with more fitted clothes and just having more versatility in my closet. One message I like to share in my style workshops is to be fearless in fashion by fighting the urge to look perfect! It's only right that I practice what I teach.
Not one person walking this earth is perfect so we should fight the urge to look that way! Period!!
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Not one person walking this earth is perfect so we should fight the urge to look that way! Period!!
Keep scrolling for deets and a discount on the dress.
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One powerful thing I've learned in life and in fashion is to fight the urge to look perfect. This dress is the prime example of me m...
New hair, who dis?!
I have found that one of the best ways to express yourself is with hair. As I prepare for the 2nd half of the year, I wanted to have some fun with my hair. Blue highlights it is!
I have some cool things I am working on and I can't wait to share it with you all. This blog has been dedicated to faith and of course fashion but I want to start sharing more fashion tips. I typically like to provide fashion inspiration photos and I keep the tips for my workshops but I am excited to start sharing here on the blog!
As my business expands, I want to make sure my blog does the same! I have been doing more personal styling and I even have a special running right now. Click here to book a session.
Cheers to the 2nd half of 2019!
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New hair, who dis?! I have found that one of the best ways to express yourself is with hair. As I prepare for the 2nd half of the ...
Walking into my next season like.....
Ayyyyy!!! I wanted to switch up my hair and have some fun with my personal style and we ended up here!
Welp, that escalated quickly. Blue highlights and a red suit for the win!
It's just my take on being fearless in fashion!
This power suit is honestly something I just put together quickly and was so shocked how well it worked together. The blazer can be found here, and the skirt was actually one I had in my closet!
Yep! I love shopping the closet to curate dope looks that even shock me!! But, if you are interested in the whole look, you can find the perfect skirt here.
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Walking into my next season like..... Ayyyyy!!! I wanted to switch up my hair and have some fun with my personal style and we ende...
Happy Sunday beautiful people!
I have had an amazing time this month featuring some amazing young women. I am closing out my Women's History month featuring my FRIEND, THE D'WILFORD! D is the perfect way to end my celebration! I wanted to close out with a woman of wisdom, who's a peer and a friend.
I met D last year and we immediately clicked! I mean it was crazy! We decided to do lunch and 4.5 hours later we determined that this was indeed a divine connection. D has been a safe place for me. This woman has covered me in prayer like she's known me my whole life. I knew I wanted her to write about friendship on the blog and she came with it!!!!
In her own words....
Meet D!
I am D’ Wilford,
wife, mom, Pastor, Beauty Guide, and woman’s mentor hailing from The east coast now living in the Chicago land area. I am an advocate for healthy womanhood, spiritual maturity, femininity, beauty, and authentic sisterhood. I’ve had a very unique yet common journey as a woman in friendship and sisterhood and I am here to share one of the greatest lessons I’ve learned. As you read keep in mind that Friendship is a sheltering tree! If you’ve ever felt the sun bearing down on you; and you thought, “if I could just find some shade, I could bear this heat. That’s what a real friend provides. Refuge!
The Friendless Zone
Have you ever gone through a phase in your life where you felt as if you were living aimlessly. You were surrounded by people, yet you felt alone?
Have you ever been drained because of giving so much, yet receiving so little? Yeah, I remember when. . . .
Do you have secrets that you can trust no one with? Are you afraid of being vulnerable with others so much so that you have to pretend that you’re okay and all is well because you don’t like appearing weak? You give some, but not all.
Have you settled for friends? Friends that aren’t as invested. Friends that envy you? Friends that want to be YOU?
Are you friends with them out of convenience and not purpose?
This is what I call the
“friendless zone. “ A zone without true peer level companionship. A zone where all you really have, is YOU. You’ll be surrounded by acquaintances and people you call friend yet have NO REAL COVENANT FRIENDSHIPS!
I have been thinking a lot about friendship lately. About those friendships that us women have with women. The true, real, half, and fake friendships. The different categories those friends fit into, the lessons we learn from them, and the level of proximity they have to us. What determines a friend in general and what classifies a best friend. What seals a sister and so forth. So many of us mistake seasonal friendships for permanent ones and or we mislabel people and give them too much access before they are proven in that role.
At some point all of us are pushed to a place where we must really identify The who’s WHO in our lives. As well as the Who’s NOT! This place often feels like a funeral and a birthday all in the same moment. The reality free’s you. But, it can also greatly grieve you.
However, it is at this place where you learn YOURSELF, identify your circle, and see your village through a clear lens.We live in a society where friendships have been reduced to social media post and photo ops. We rush into relationships before really vetting people.
We live in a society where people connect because of your social status, career, who you post to be, and even your style. In 2019 people will love you with their words but undervalue you with their actions. And loyalty? That’s a whole other blog post!
The friendless zone is a real thing in our society beyond what it appears to be. And there are many among us that are more friendless than they care to admit.
I encounter so many women who live life detached. So many women hurt and fearful loving the idea of sisterhood, but never experiencing the reality of sisterhood. I remember being in my early 20’s surrounded by people but lonely. Yes, I had a little crew and was there when needed. But, I lacked intimacy. I felt like the friend who did all the work without reciprocation.
In many instances I went without the help and support I needed because that’s just what you do when you’re surrounded by needy people or shall I say, people that need you. I made the horrible mistake of befriending women I probably should’ve been mentoring had I been healthier myself. I was struggling in my mind. I was pouring, but broken and miserable. I was carrying my relationships and it was breaking me down. I had a Boo. But he wasn’t a woman. And sure, I was around women that I could hang out with. But, what I was going through required a level of support I didn’t think they had the capacity to give. I positioned myself as their super woman. But, I cried alone, sorted through alone, and barely made it. I’ll never forget the day I had an “AHA” moment where I had to FACE the reality of my life and relationships. I WAS FRIENDLESS and really wasn’t connected to my family either.
The realness of that reality engulfed me and I went into depression. I felt the pain of longing for friendship. I felt the reality of being used and taken for granted. I minimized who I was for the sake of others esteem. I was there longing to receive what I was giving. And even far beyond anything I could give. I knew it would take special persons to befriend me and it mean something. I longed for a safe place. And I wanted to be friends with someone that deserved me!
I got so fed up that it finally dawned on me that I had yet to pray about it. And so I did. I vented to the Lord and I went in deep. I prayed for a certain caliber of friends and decided that I would heal from half and fake friendships so that I could be open and ready for the real. This was the beginning of creating a real village outside of my family.
God began to surround me with strong, secure women. He heard and answered me. I found myself around a few women who were further along in life than I was and those who actually had something to offer. Listen!!! Don’t be afraid to pray for friends. GOD IS GOOD AND WILL SUPPLY WHAT YOU NEED! And I mean exactly what you need.
Great women entered my life one by one. While I felt they were amazing and was excited about the new journey. Their presence revealed something about me that I didn’t know. What was it?!?
I didn’t know how to receive them internally. I was a horrible recipient or shall I say I was a broken recipient. I felt weird. I felt wrong and too vulnerable for even telling them I had a bad day. I was self reliant and I had become so accustomed to being in control as the giver and “strong” friend. I didn’t know how to receive from a strong friend. And I surely didn’t know how to release to one.
It was in those moments I realized I was really AFRAID of trusting someone else with the real ME. I was afraid of being judged. I didn’t know I was worthy of someone really being invested in me. And I didn’t know how to be loved. It was also at that moment that I realized I had personal issues. Those issues had nothing to do with friendship. But everything to do with ME!
The issue was my lack of wholeness, not knowing my worth, not properly tending to myself, and my inability to be open. I was married to fear in a way most people can relate to. It was fear that determined how well I could receive love and have community. I was no longer friendless because no one was capable to give what I needed. I was friendless because I didn’t know how to have a friend. And or how to appreciate different aspects and measures of friendship. I understood my role as the giver. But didn’t quite get it as the receiver. So even with some of the previous relationships that I counted out before the “aha moment.” I had expectations for people to do friendship like me and I failed to learn THEM and or to respect their capacity levels and what they had to offer and or what they would grow to offer.
You have to give your friends room to evolve and flourish beyond your expectations and needs. If they are toxic. . .yes, let them go. But if they are simply unlearned. Step back and let them grow! Not all, but some of those same women from my early 20’s remain in my life and they are some of the strongest relationships I have. One of them is my best friend! And the other is one of the closest persons to me in the world.
Please take this lesson I’ve learned. The friendless zone isn’t to reveal the issues of other women and their inability to be your friend. It isn’t to show you their lack of value and love for you. It’s not to affirm you as the victim. The friendless zone reveals YOU! At that time in my life, it revealed ME!
There are some things you will not know about yourself until someone enters your life and LOVES YOU WELL. There are things you will not know until you broaden your perspective of the world and of people in general. We sometime live life as if our world and circles revolve around us when the reality is WE MUST EVOLVE IN AND WITH THEM!
What determines how great of a friend you are isn’t just how well you give and all that you do and are to them. It is also how well you receive friendship. And how well you receive love, celebration, truth? and affirmation. If you cannot fully receive. You can have capable people near, yet remain FRIENDLESS. You’ll have every excuse of why you can’t trust them not realizing the only real reason is your lack of security that sabotages anything that threatens your self reliance and self sufficiency.
One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is. . .real friendship kills self reliance and it will dismantle FEAR!
I was healed when I got over myself and allowed someone else to love the worst of me. When I allowed someone else to be my strength, to celebrate me, to uplift, sow into, and pray me through beyond how I thought it should be done. I broke free of fear in relationships when I allowed God to perfectly love me through the gift he gave me called sisters and friends! Inviting others to be a part of your story is in your best interest. And allowing them to be who they are adds to you.
Covenant Friends are graced with a certain capacity level and compatibility that will not only fulfill you but also heal you. Not all will be and give the same thing. But what they can give should be appreciated and honored. You’ll have friends that you run to. Those that will journey with you in the thick of life. You’ll have other friends that you update just to keep them in the know. You’ll have friends that you cry with, and friends that you call when you’re simply ready to have a good time. Some of your friends will bring the best out of you. And others, you will bring the best out of them. Some of your friends will be the strong friend in your life and you’ll be strong friend for others. You will have friends that are further along in life. LEARN FROM THEM! And those you are ahead of. Allow them to learn from you. You’ll have friends that are positioned in your life as intercessors and others may be in need of intercession. There are also instances where it is mutual on every level. One or two will embody all of this for you and others won’t. However, It takes openness, vulnerability, security, and flexibility to really have friends and enjoy the different relationship dynamics.
Make room for people to LOVE YOU! The real you. You deserve it! It’s so easy to be the giver. But it takes humility to be the receiver.
There is a simple truth that I want you to remember. It will always stretch you to be whole and open as you expand your circle. “WHAT YOU EXUDE, YOU WILL DRAW! And what you make room for will make room for you.”
Friendship is powerful. A good friend can help us through adversity and even provide what riches and success cannot.
Life-giving friendships are essential for our health. Developing meaningful, lasting friendships is not a by-product, but is built through intentional, purposed time, vulnerability, investment, loyalty, honesty, communication, consistency, and reciprocity.
IF you are feeling even the tiniest twinge of unspoken “friend-less-ness” today, then I want to reassure you that you are not alone! Every woman's heart longs for deep friendships and close relationships with people they can share life with. Be real about it. Be in love with the idea of having real sisters. Be open and willing to grow
There is a lesson in the friendless zone and for many of you. It’s to see what part of YOU rejects love and friendship. We cannot allow ourselves to be so caught up on the cause that we ignore the effect. It is the effect that hinders forward progression and evolution. We must deal with the effect so that we are not infectious to those around us. There is no rule of how many real friends you’re allowed to have. I now have a village and love the diversity in my sisterhood circle.
Let God bless you with your unbreakable circle. Love on and tend to your soul for you and those around you. Lastly, I pray you find joy and wholeness in womanhood so that you can flourish in sisterhood. And most of all, I pray you SOAR in love so much so that you’re not only giving it but you’re receiving even more.
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Happy Sunday beautiful people! I have had an amazing time this month featuring some amazing young women. I am closing out my Women's ...
We're still going! All month long I am celebrating young women in honor of Women's History Month.
Today's feature is with the amazing Gracelyn! I met Gracelyn a few years ago and was so inspired by her journey. She's such an inspirational young woman and I could not wait to have her on the blog.
Gracelyn decided that she wanted to do a Q&A and as soon as I started reading her answers I was crying!!
Grab your tissues and read a bit about Gracelyn below:
1. How old are you?
I am 19 years old!
2. What is something that makes you special?
My identity makes me
special. My name is Gracelyn. On June 29th, 1999 - I was born 2lbs, 1oz to two
parents who believed in the Grace of God. Mom went through so much; blood
transfusions, shots, bedrest, allergies to medication, depression, and severe
hemorrhaging. The doctors told my parents that if my mom didn't have a blood
transfusion, we would both die. This is when I was named “Gracelyn” because my
parents said that it was by the “GRACE" of God if I lived. My mom was so
sick, tired and worn out that she said to God “If this baby is not born by
Tuesday, then I quit”. Sure enough, our Father in Heaven heard her cry and
within an hour her contractions started 20 minutes til midnight and I was born
that Tuesday morning. Now my name is Gracelyn. My name carries life, power,
identity, beauty, strength, and of course- love. I believe with everything in
me that the reason why I am who I am is not because of anything that I have
said or done- but it is because His Grace is sufficient for me (2 Corinthians
12:9). Someone fought for me, someone paid a price for me, someone suffered for
me. This is what Jesus Christ did for me and for you. That is what makes US
special. My name is not just a name, it is my identity. God marked me for Him.
To live, breath, and do all that I do to glorify Him. I encourage you to find
out what your name means, maybe it’s not a positive meaning or maybe it is, but
be sure to identify based on who God calls you, not based on what you’ve faced.
You are a daughter, you are a son, and you are special, precious, and loved in
His sight. (Isaiah 43:4)
3. When did you know you had a special message to share with the
world?
In 2016, I began making 2-3 minute inspirational Snapchat
stories. I grabbed my phone nearly every day to speak about what God placed in my
heart. I spoke a lot about relationships, worth, love, and humanity. There were
days that I went to school and was asked if I’d ever considered starting a
YouTube channel. I then felt compelled to begin my YouTube channel Gracelyn
Sorrell speaking on purity, love, and relationships, I realized that if people
were inspired, then I was doing something right. I knew that I had a special
message to share with the world well…When I started sharing it. In my process
of committing to purity, losing my father, pornography addiction, same-sex
assault, bullying, being set apart and so much more- I didn’t understand any of
it. I couldn’t seem to comprehend God's thoughts for me when mine were
everywhere. I was broken and I couldn’t find the courage to share my story with
the world because I couldn’t get past the question that I’d asked God nearly
every day, “Why me?" Until one day He said to me, “Why NOT you?” I said
okay God, fine- You can use me even IN my pain. He did just that and continues
to give me platforms to speak and share what He has placed in my heart.
4. What would you consider your biggest obstacle that you have
overcome?
The biggest obstacle
that I have overcome was struggling with identity issues. This was not only an
obstacle, but it was also a course- a process that you can’t skip to the end to
win. It was a process that I’d least expected that I would deal with. It sprung
up from being bullied and same-sex assault. My entire life was flipped upside
down. I didn’t know who I was, so I accepted who people told me I was. I didn’t
know how to get to know other people, so I isolated myself. I didn’t know
how to love, so I accepted lust. I didn’t even know what my laugh naturally
sounded like, so I tried to sound like everyone else. My perspective was
perverted and distorted in every way. My days were cloudy and it felt like the
longest storm. Struggling with identity does not only equate to sexual
orientation, but identity issues also begin when you don’t feel worthy enough
to find the truth. Identity lies in truth and I wasn’t willing to find truth
because that meant facing a mirror and confessing that I was broken and needed
saving.
5. What do you do for fun?
I SHOP FOR FUN! I
don’t shop to splurge, I shop to style. I love to go out and look for cute
accessories, and pieces that can go with my current hairstyle or shoes. I love
jeans and comfy things but I am definitely getting into more creative looks all
while expressing my personality. If I say “OH MY GOSH, LOOOOOK”, It’s probably
a yes from me!
6. What is the greatest testimony that you have witnessed?
One of the greatest
testimonies that I have witnessed was from a beautiful lady named Tatiana Jones
also known as “Totally Tot”. As she lost her baby nearly 8 years ago, I am
reminded of strength and perseverance. The strength that it must take for a
mother to lose a baby. Tots testimony reminds me of Gods power. Tot couldn’t
have controlled what she lost, but God is steering what she will soon discover.
Tot has continued to have hope and carry the gift of hope. The power in Tot is
a testament to Christ’s love for us, even in pain- He loves. Thank you, Tot.
7. What would you tell someone who wants to live a pure lifestyle
and abstain from sex?
To the person who
desires to live a pure lifestyle; please know that purity is not “you put your
right foot in, you put your right foot out” Noooo, Purity is the consistent
progression of your mind, body, and soul. The Bible talks about being lukewarm
"I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish
you were either one or the other! So, because you are
lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my
mouth.” (Revelation 3:15-16). Dig deeper into knowing what purity truly
means and once you commit to purity, give your whole heart. We live a pure
lifestyle to see Christ (Matthew 5:8). Like I always say “The Goal is Heaven”
and of course always remember that "In a world full of impurity, Purity IS
possible.” -Gracelyn Sorrell
8. How do you handle this calling at such a young age?
I handle this calling
by daily surrender. I give God a fresh “Yes” every day of my life. I could
never ever do it by myself.
9. What keeps you grounded?
My mother keeps me
grounded. Her wisdom, truth, and love correct me when I’m wrong and I can admit
that she will tell me what I need to hear when I need to hear it. These days,
I’m so self-aware that I usually tell her what I’m doing wrong, and she will
agree or say “No, you are being too hard on yourself” my mom has shown me the
love, compassion and truth of Christ which reminds me that I am nothing and He
is everything.
Website:
GracelynSorrell.com
Instagram: @GracelynSorrell
YouTube: Gracelyn
Sorrell
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The celebration continues! All month long for Women's History month,
I am celebrating young women who are truly inspirational!
I first met Makayla Cephus last October. I happened to be in a room with her Mother and some other friends and they were watching her on FB Live. She was transparently telling her story of depression and her journey with it.
I was floored by her honesty and intrigued by her story. I immediately knew I wanted her on the blog. There's something so powerful about finding your voice and using it for the Kingdom of God! Makayla, at the mere age of 21 has done both! She fearlessly shares her journey and even has a book out out now. As I do with all of my guest bloggers, I invited Makayla to share with my readers....
In her own words:
I, Makayla Cephus, am here to tell you that you don't have to deal with depression and suicidal thoughts alone and it's never too late to give God your "Yes!"
My book is dedicated to those who currently battle depression and are tormented by suicidal thoughts. I desire to lead the parade in breaking the silence on such a horrendous emotional experience which can cripple and stagnant a life, if left untreated.
My book is dedicated to those who currently battle depression and are tormented by suicidal thoughts. I desire to lead the parade in breaking the silence on such a horrendous emotional experience which can cripple and stagnant a life, if left untreated.
There are many who are suffering alone!
I was ignited and inspired by observing other moms who’ve experienced depression on a wide, diverse spectrum; including postpartum. Those heroic women gave me the courage to tell my story, in hopes that others will be fueled to tell their stories,
so, we all can gain strength.
With increased strength, we all win!
I was once that 17 year old girl who became a pregnant teen less than a month of being away at college, feeling as if it was the end of the world. I turned in my dorm room key around 1:30am Saturday morning, to move back home to Chicago IL, realizing that in life, it was no longer about me. Also, I needed to be around love and being so far away from my family took that feeling away from me. I worked and enrolled into a community college! Towards the end of my pregnancy, I was fired from my job and kicked out of school due to an $14,000 University debt. It was so hard for me to find a job that would fit my son and I availability and relying on government assistance was never to be apart of my plans. Of course my parents helped and coached me through my pregnancy, but in my heart, a roof over our head was more than enough to be thankful for!
I didn’t know exactly what postpartum was until I found myself crying all the time, disconnecting myself from my child, hanging with the wrong crowd and making drug use my escape from all of my problems. I was battling with demons in my head alone. I didn’t know how to explain what I was going through, so I dealt with it alone and suffered. In attempt of suicide, my plans to kill myself failed. Instead, I was able to hear God’s voice for direction when I thought he had given up on me from numerous mistakes ago. I’ve been forgiven, cleansed, made new and here today to tell you, you too can start over.
You can purchase your “There’s Life After Depression” to read the full story, beginning to end.
www.makaylamcephus.com
To my son, I’ve rejected you from the womb when I didn’t know any better. What I thought was a mistake turned to be my life’s biggest blessing. You have grown with me through the traumatic phases of my life to the better. You have taught me patience, virtue and worth. I break any rejection spirit, identity crisis, word curse or bloodline curse off of you. You are loved! You are a genius. You are vocal. You are a leader. You will do many great things in the earth. I am proud to be your Mommy!
The celebration continues! All month long for Women's History month, I am celebrating young women who are truly inspirational! ...
Happy March beautiful people! Here on the blog I use March to celebrate Women's History Month! This year I will be celebrating and honoring some young ladies I have had the honor of encountering. These young ladies have inspired me and I know they will inspire you. I am kicking it off with Kim! Kim was one of my first features when she was just 13 yrs. old! Kim is now 17 yrs. old and I invited her back!
Here's her story in her own words:
Hello everyone! My name is Kimberly Wilborn, and I am a Junior at Butler college prep. You may remember 13 year- old me sharing my testimony with Christ 4 years ago on Tot’s blog. Now, I'm 17 and whew chile! My life has had many ups and downs.
As a junior there are couple of things I’m learning as I mature into a young lady.
As a junior there are couple of things I’m learning as I mature into a young lady.
1) Find who you are, and stick to it.
I’ve always known who I was, but sometimes I have a hard time accepting it. Even down to my style , I would dress like the typical teenager to fit in. In high school, there are so many groups that made me feel like I had to change. Being myself was a hard thing because I could see and feel people make an assumption about me. I wanted to fit in, so that I didn’t have to face other people stares.
Whenever I find myself trying to be someone I'm not, I think about this scripture.
(Genesis 1:26-28)
“26 And God said, Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of heaven and over the cattle and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps upon the earth.”
In this scripture, the Trinity gives dominion to mankind. Also, he gives them His identity. In His image, He created me. That means each feature, characteristic, and flaw was given to me as a reflection of His beauty. Acknowledging that I am His reflection pushes me to accept who I am. There is literally no one else on this world like me; I’m special!
2) High School is teaching me to listen before I do anything: listen concerning a boyfriend, a relationship, my room, my style, and even writing! Listening is a skill everyone can learn from. Especially me! When I would talk to God, I would make two mistakes: I talked at God, and I never waited on a response. That’s a horrible combinations because I always felt like my prayers weren’t getting answered when I needed them to.
James 1:19
“19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry”
Sometimes, I can imagine God saying: Listen Linda listen! I’m learning to posture myself so that I can hear this voice clearly. His words are so strategic and on time, and missing them can be dangerous. Especially, in such critical years as I develop into being a young adult.
3) Keep your heavy hitters close
There are some friendships God has definitely put me in during my high school career. These friendships brought insight, and genuine bonding . My friends and I talk, we receive revelation, laugh, and cry all in one conversation. Having a circle put me closer to God and people who really love me! My friend helps me appreciate those people he put in my life.
4) Being Obedient
Man have I gotten myself into so many things because of my disobedience! God would literally give me instructions to do something and I would completely ignore it. Continually, I would tell God no, and it stagnated me each time. And what I’m realizing is that the root of this is fear. I was afraid of anything that pushed me closer to my calling, so my answer to everything was a complete no! But this scripture shuts everything down:
Jeremiah 29:11
“11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Isn’t it so crazy how we can be so protective from the one who surely has our best interest at heart? God has plans to prosper me and to push me closer to Him, and sometimes that’s scary. Trusting a God who says He has your life planned out can be a bit scary. But, I’m learning to trust God because His word can not return unto his void. He was here before my existence and knows what’s best for me.
As I typed this, I learned so much about myself! And I’m so grateful that I have a platform, like this, to share my story! Thank you for listening in to my story, and I’ll see you next time!
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