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I am so so excited about this planner!

The 2019 Weekly Goals Planner is now available!

I've been so busy sharing it with my friends on social media, I am delayed on here. But, we are 10 days into the new year and this planner is the perfect tool for your 2019!

Last year I created a free workbook focused on goals and declarations. Over 1300 people downloaded this free tool in 2018. I created this workbook for the overwhelmed and the people who could use help organizing their thoughts and balancing their lives.

Well......

I have created something even better to assist goal driven people in 2019! The "2019 Weekly Goals" planner was created to serve you and your busy life!

This planner is detailed yet to the point! It's next level and created to help you set purposeful balanced goals.

It's time we bring those vision boards to LIFE!!!

Order yours today at bit.ly/goalsplanner2019!

featured - Friday, January 11, 2019

2019 Weekly Goals Planner

I am so so excited about this planner! The 2019 Weekly Goals Planner is now available! I've been so busy sharing it with ...

I am loving the blazer dress trend so much that I wanted to try it. Well.....it didn't fit exactly how I hoped. It's super cute and classic but I was so sad I didn't love it.

But, I made the best of it and decided to throw on my fox fur to have fun!

Thanks to Shein I was able to try this trend and rock it out!

Use my promo code "B4181036" for 20% off!

#SundaysWithTot - Sunday, December 23, 2018

PolkaDot Hot!

I am loving the blazer dress trend so much that I wanted to try it. Well.....it didn't fit exactly how I hoped. It's super cute...

Life is happening so fast! 2018 has taught me more than any other year that life happens to all of us! There's no way to escape the lessons that God has for you. PERIODT! I am learning to lean in to Jesus more than ever because that's the only way I can experience peace as I experience life's ups and downs.

I feel like my blog posts lately have been a bit sad. UGH!!! But, this is my safe place to just be and share as I feel lead. I believe that as much as I share great moments, it's important to share the real. I am learning to have faith even when the vision is cloudy! I trust GOD and trust my life with HIM!

If you are reading this......no matter what it looks like keep the FAITH!!!!

Coat can be found here from Shein. I have noticed their sizing is getting more accurate which I am loving.

I am in love with these pants!

Click here for these super comfy leggings!

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#FunDaysWithTot - Friday, December 21, 2018

FAITH TO FINISH STRONG!

Life is happening so fast! 2018 has taught me more than any other year that life happens to all of us! There's no way to escape the...

We have 2 weeks left in the year and I am committed to finish everything that I set out to complete this year.

I am writing this blog post to encourage you to give this year your all.

I don't want to leave my blessings on the table because of my disobedience. I refuse to not level up because of my circumstances. I am focused on my focus for the next 2 weeks.

This year has been amazingly wonderful all while experiencing some very low moments of sadness. But, I am determined to keep going despite it all. I a determined to give it all I got and I encourage you to do the same!

2018 is not over for us!

Go hard and trust GOD with the rest!!

Fab dress from Shein! Here’s the link ➡️ http://bit.ly/2QdIhIu! Use my promo code “BF181036” for 20% off your purchase at Shein!

#SundaysWithTot - Sunday, December 16, 2018

Giving 2018 All I've Got!

We have 2 weeks left in the year and I am committed to finish everything that I set out to complete this year. I am writing this b...

Are you ready to live a lit life??

I am so excited to release this workbook!! Like seriously, so excited! For the last couple of months I have been tirelessly working on getting this workbook published and ready for distribution!

Now, today is the DAY!!!

This workbook means so much to me because I know that it is a powerful tool for not only teenagers but for women.

This workbook focuses on dreams, style, emotions, goals, and identity. I have even added a monthly gratitude journal at the end. Using this workbook will increase self-awareness as well as ask the tough questions that sets us apart.

Order a copy for yourself and the young lady in your life!

To learn more about "Living the Lit Life" click here!

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featured - Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Living The Lit Life!!!

Are you ready to live a lit life?? I am so excited to release this workbook!! Like seriously, so excited! For the last couple of mont...

It's the middle of winter and I feel like life is just truly warming up for me.

My Granny's death has me thinking a lot about my legacy and how I want to be remembered. I want to be more intentional than I have ever been in my life. I want a lead a life of love how my Granny did. I want people to know me for being kind, loving, honest, giving, and of course stylish! lol!

As we come to the end of the year, I am thinking more about life than just goals for 2019. My thoughts are on legacy...... I am just warming and I am excited for the future!!

Let's talk clothes!

I am so excited to share the details of this look!

This top is from the awesome Shein! I have noticed a shift in Shein's sizing, it is now more accurate than ever. This top is a 2X and I could have sized down to my standard 1X for sure.

Be sure to use my code, "BF181036” for 20% off our purchase with Shein!

Now, these pants are from a place I seem to score some great pieces from when I need something quick.....Rainbow! Yes, Rainbow! Now, I had to size up and get a 3X but as you can see in the photos they fit great and they were $22! Everything does not have to break the bank to look good!!!

Stay warm people and focus on legacy!!!

featured - Sunday, December 09, 2018

Warming Up.......

It's the middle of winter and I feel like life is just truly warming up for me. My Granny's death has me thinking a lot ab...

On November 15th, my life and foundation as I know it shifted more than I was mentally prepared for. My Granny passed away at the age of 81. I felt like she still had so much life to live, I thought she would live to see 100! I really did. My Granny was sick and medical professionals had given her 6 months to a year to live but I had faith in God that she would live much longer. She often expressed to my family how tired she was. She was not afraid of death and she was excited to go to Heaven.

But.....that didn't make any of this easier!!!

My Granny has been a STAPLE in my life for my entire life. I don't know life without her silently cheering me on. I didn't go away to college, I instead went to community college and lived with my Granny for a few years before I turned 21. She was one of the most constant and consistent people in my life. My heart aches at the thought of never seeing her or holding her hand again.........MY GRANNY.

My Granny was not just my Granny but she was the neighborhood Granny. She lived in the same house over 40 years! Almost all of my cousins and I, at some point in our lives, have lived in that house. It is OUR FOUNDATION. Her face, her voice, her energy, her love, her cooking, her praying......it has been the foundation of my life. Her death shook me to my core. My foundation feels shaken. Her living and breathing made me feel safe and secure. My faith is not shaken but my heart aches.

Growing up, I had both my maternal Grandmommy and my Granny on my Dad's side. I felt so loved as a child. My Grandmommy passed away from breast cancer when I was 10 years old. As a child I was devastated at the lost of my beautiful Granmommy, who called me her chocolate princess. I then was left with one Granny to cling to. As I have gotten older I recognized how special it is to be born into such loving families. I thank God I know and have experienced my Grandparents love. It is truly something special.

Random fact: I am even named after my Granny. My middle name is Christella 😉

When I had my daughter Farah, my Granny was right by my side. I was a broken woman who needed the nurturing and love of a Granny. I left the hospital and slept in the bed with my Granny for at least 2 weeks. She hugged me, prayed for me, cooked for me, and brought me back to life after losing my child. When it was time to do the March of Dimes walk to honor my angel, my Granny was right there!!! She was determined to join us! That's just who she was. A determined and loving woman.....my Granny.

I'm not sure why I wanted to write this, I am still processing what this means for my life. But, I thank God for this blog where I can just be.

MY GRANNY. I miss her so much and I pray I make her proud. I know Heaven is more than she could have imagined!!!!

Christella Wynn

January 10, 1937 - November 15, 2018

featured - Friday, December 07, 2018

My Granny

On November 15th, my life and foundation as I know it shifted more than I was mentally prepared for. My Granny passed away at the age o...

2018 is the year that has changed my LIFE. I can't believe it's almost over though.

I am determined to live this life I have been blessed with. I am determined to not let life's circumstances paralyze me but instead encourage me to live!

I am determined to finish 2018 crushing my goals and trusting GOD like never before.

Sweater & Boots....yes the boots are from Shein!

Click here for the sweater!

Click here for boots!

Click here for sunglasses!

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#FunDaysWithTot - Saturday, November 24, 2018

Determined to LIVE

2018 is the year that has changed my LIFE. I can't believe it's almost over though. I am determined to live this life I have ...

I refuse to fake it! Even though I have learned to smile through my pain, I won't fake it through life. When I feel sad, I say it. When I feel mad, I say it.

I have a strong village that I lean and depend on for prayers and support. I think it's important to have a safe place to just be. This helps me get through tough times instead of acting as if they aren't happening.

I recently had a major death in my family. I will share more about it in it's on blog post. For now, I will just say I know better days are ahead.

Dress from Shein! It's super comfy.

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#FunDaysWithTot - Friday, November 23, 2018

NO FAKING IT

I refuse to fake it! Even though I have learned to smile through my pain, I won't fake it through life. When I feel sad, I say it. ...

As I get caught up on the blog. I wanted to share some encouragement for right now.

I'm learning to embrace silence in my life.

Sometimes we can let our minds run rampant with thoughts that aren't healthy for us. Then there are other times when we are trying to counter those negative thoughts with positivity and even the Word of GOD. BUT....... I am learning how to just be still. I am learning the art of silencing my brain, if even for a moment and how helpful that can be.

Sitting still and trusting GOD for just a moment daily has proven to be a powerful and peaceful tool for me.

I'm reminded of the scripture:

Be Still and KNOW that I am GOD.
Psalm 46:10