Fun outfits make life just a tad bit brighter! I can hardly believe that summer is wrapping up. But, I am going to ride the su...
Often times people will try to CONTROL you with things that only serve them!
The word of God says......
To watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them. For such persons do not serve our Lord Christ, but their OWN appetites, and by smooth talk and flattery they deceive the hearts of the naive.Romans 16:17-18 ESV
So, how do you NOT BE NAIVE?? See what the WORD says below:
Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. 1 Peter 5:8-9 (NIV)
Amen......
Often times people will try to CONTROL you with things that only serve them! The word of God says...... To watch out ...
I recently shared with a close friend how tired I was. Tired of fighting my deepest darkest demons. I just decided to give in and even made some major mistakes this summer. I felt like I couldn’t get over certain bumps that required major discipline, focus, and quite frankly me to fight for my life!
Once upon a time, I was in love with the journey to a better me, that was until the journey began to feel like torture. As a Christian, it’s easy to unconsciously give God a time frame. Like, "okay God you have about 9 months of my obedience then I’m going rogue!" Shaking my head at myself! What’s wrong with me??? The funny thing about the struggle is it’s no secret! Everyone can tell but the enemy makes you believe you have things under control. The devil is a liar!!!!!!! Fight for your life!!!!!!!
Effective immediately, I’ll be increasing my study time. I have slacked greatly in my personal devotion and study time. I can feel every part of me weakening to the things I struggle with. My weapons have been tucked away......but not anymore!!!!! I’m back in the fight! It’s time to fight for my life!!! I wanted to make this a blog post versus a personal journal entry because you too may need to fight for your life!!!!!! Turn up the fight in the spirit! The enemy comes to KILL you, Steal your destiny and destroy every part of you! Fight!!!!!!!!! I’ve been running on fumes while aiming for “self-care” missing the most vital part of taking care of my self.....JESUS!
Once upon a time, I was in love with the journey to a better me, that was until the journey began to feel like torture. As a Christian, it’s easy to unconsciously give God a time frame. Like, "okay God you have about 9 months of my obedience then I’m going rogue!" Shaking my head at myself! What’s wrong with me??? The funny thing about the struggle is it’s no secret! Everyone can tell but the enemy makes you believe you have things under control. The devil is a liar!!!!!!! Fight for your life!!!!!!!
Effective immediately, I’ll be increasing my study time. I have slacked greatly in my personal devotion and study time. I can feel every part of me weakening to the things I struggle with. My weapons have been tucked away......but not anymore!!!!! I’m back in the fight! It’s time to fight for my life!!! I wanted to make this a blog post versus a personal journal entry because you too may need to fight for your life!!!!!! Turn up the fight in the spirit! The enemy comes to KILL you, Steal your destiny and destroy every part of you! Fight!!!!!!!!! I’ve been running on fumes while aiming for “self-care” missing the most vital part of taking care of my self.....JESUS!
I realize that every new level in life is going to require GREATER discipline and greater focus. I know that I can do neither in my own strength so I am trusting God to give me the tools for the fight!
I am back in the FIGHT!!!!
Dress from Shein!
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Dress from Shein!
Use my code "total20" for a discount off of any order over $60!
I recently shared with a close friend how tired I was. Tired of fighting my deepest darkest demons. I just decided to give in and even ma...
Well hello, 34!!!!
On, August 3rd I turned 34 and I am feeling so thankful to see another year! All I really wanted for my birthday was to dance, chill, and laugh!!!
For so many years I was a slave to my birthday. I felt like I had to be completely over the top. I would put pressure on myself to travel, and do the most! By the time my birthday was over, I needed a vacation from all of the festivities. GEESH!!!! But, for the last couple of years.....I have learned to chill. I am excited for 34! I am excited to see what God has planned for me! My goal is to focus on God and learn to lean in and hear HIM more.
Mood for 34...
Matthew 6:33
Seek ye FIRST the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.
Now about this look!
Shoes: Giuseppe Zanotti
Bag: Vintage Louis Vuiton
This comfy dress from Shein aided greatly in my chill birthday celebration!
Can you believe it is only $26? I could have used a 2X but I ordered a 3X to be on the safe side.
Well hello, 34!!!! On, August 3rd I turned 34 and I am feeling so thankful to see another year! All I really wanted for my birt...
The last 2 years or so God has been dealing with me about speaking up. I’m not shy but I’d much rather keep the peace than learn how to properly advocate for myself. I’m always ready to drop someone or the situation rather than stay and learn to have a healthy conversation. One major lesson I learned in my last position was how to advocate for myself. I wanted to walk away so many times but God made me stay and speak up and watch HIM do the rest!!!
I had to learn that if it doesn’t challenge you it won’t change you and sometimes change is GOOD! I believe that we must learn the difference between being stretched and being drained. Everything isn’t draining you, some situations were sent to stretch you. The only way we will know the difference is by PRAYER & DISCERNMENT! Too often we are chasing peace that we miss out on opportunities to level UP and be stretched. Nothing ever happens in your comfort zone. There’s always going to be a need for perseverance! Here’s a couple of scriptures that kept me as I learned to speak up and trust the Lord!!!!
James 1:12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
Acts 18:9-10 One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: “Do not be afraid; keep on speaking, do not be silent. 10 For I am with you, and no one is going to attack and harm you, because I have many people in this city.”
Proverbs 31:8 ESV Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute.
The last 2 years or so God has been dealing with me about speaking up. I’m not shy but I’d much rather keep the peace than learn how to pro...
I’ve worked with some amazing brands, but one brand I am always asked about is Shein.
Here we go...........
1. They are legit! The clothes on the site are the clothes you receive. They are not a scam site. lol! On a scale of 1-10, I would give the quality of Shein’s clothes a 7.
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2. Sizing is comparable to a Juniors Plus line......so size up most times! If you are a 14-16 you may need a 2X-3X on their site. I’ve ordered multiple sizes from them. This brings me to point 3.....
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3. Read the reviews and the description for EACH item. The sizing is not consistent across the site. This is the most difficult thing about shopping on Shein’s site. But the payoff is major!! You can’t beat the deals and the pieces are a hit!!
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4. Shipping takes about 5-7 business days. They do offer express shipping but I suggest giving them at least 5 business days.
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5. Always use a promo code for their site. Shein typically has amazing deals that are even better with a promo code. Every time I post a look from Shein, I share my promo code, “total20” which is valid for orders over $59!
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Leave me a comment if you have any questions, I am happy to help!
Although I have received these pieces from Shein for marketing purposes the opinions I share will ALWAYS be honest and my own! I LOVE US FOR REAL!!!
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Although I have received these pieces from Shein for marketing purposes the opinions I share will ALWAYS be honest and my own! I LOVE US FOR REAL!!!
I’ve worked with some amazing brands, but one brand I am always asked about is Shein . Are they legit? How’s the shipping? Qua...
I mentioned before that New Orleans was everything I didn't know I needed. Everywhere I turned there were black powerful women walking in love and kindness! It was such a powerful experience. I can't believe it has taken me so long to go and experience Essence Fest and New Orleans. I would suggest that every black woman experiences Essence Fest at least one time in her life! Representation matters, it really does!!
I was able to get in some work and a lot of play. As soon as I touched down in NOLA, I scheduled a photoshoot with an amazing photographer. I was able to get my shoot out of the way the first day and just enjoy the rest of my trip without trying to capture outfit pics for the blog. This was my first time in New Orleans and my goal was to just enjoy it all.... and of course, try some beignets!
I arrived in NOLA on the 4th of July which was so cool to experience the 4th in another city. The views from my hotel were so perfect that we didn't have to go far to see some fireworks.
Thursday I was able to get an exclusive look at the festival! OMG!!!!!! The opportunity to experience the fest before the doors opened to the public was phenomenal. Here's a few pics from Day 2 in NOLA!!!!
My super cute peplum top is from Shein! I ordered a size 3X but could have gotten a 2X for sure in this top. I love the back details with the bows giving me the perfect NOLA spice in my look!
Ths shorts are old and from Forever 21! The shoes are my new fave wedges from Christian Louboutin!
I mentioned before that New Orleans was everything I didn't know I needed. Everywhere I turned there were black powerful women walking ...
Summer 2018 is truly giving me everything I didn't know that I needed.
I decided to go to Essence Festival in New Orleans and whew chile..........I got my whole entire LIFE!!! The last couple of years have been full of work for me between my day job and working on my personal brand. My main focus this summer is self-care and learning what that looks like for me.
Earlier this year I decided to start seeing a therapist and it was one of the best decisions of the year! have never felt more at peace in my life. Interestingly enough this has been on my vision board for 2 years but this was the year I took the leap and I couldn't be happier. My therapist is a Christian which was very important to me when I was seeking counseling.
I am truly reclaiming my time and learning more about myself daily. NOLA was a breath of fresh air for me! I have officially been on this new journey for 30 days now! My word this week is discipline. I am eager to dive into making my own schedule without the demands of a 9-5. I am excited to share more of this journey here on the blog. I am eager to see what God has in store for me for the remainder of 2018!!!!
Now, let's talk about this super cute short set!!!! Most of my vacation wear came from Shein. I am not a huge fan of shorts but this set was too cute for me not to rock it! Although Shein sent me this set....my opinions are my own and are very honest! I love that Shein has trendy pieces that work for curvy women like myself. This set has absolutely no stretch so I had to get a 5X. WHEW CHILE! I am typically a 1x-2x but I read the reviews and requested the 5X.
It was the perfect look to kick off my vacation in NOLA!
Did I mention this set is $20??? Yep!
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Summer 2018 is truly giving me everything I didn't know that I needed. I decided to go to Essence Festival in New Orleans and w...
What are you believing God for this Quarter? What do you have extreme faith for the next 3 months?
My life has changed drastically, and I couldn’t be more excited and nervous for my future. On June 4th I was let go from my 9-5. To be honest, I was already a bit tired from all of the things that came with working a 9-5. I have served as an Assistant for almost over 13 years. I started corporate at the young age of 20! Tried college a couple of times but I made a decent living working in Corporate, so I stuck with it. I started out as a Receptionist, moved on to an Office Assistant, to Office Manager, to Senior Executive Assistant in my last role. These jobs required so much more than what the job description stated. Support staff is truly the backbone of every single organization created.
But......I WAS TIRED!
I faced many situations in my last position that I legally can’t speak on. The last 3 years of my life I dedicated 40 hours a week to a company. I cried, prayed, and hung on until the end. One huge lesson I’ve learned from this situation is to trust in the LORD! Trusting God and listening to God kept me in perfect peace even when I didn’t understand. The end was sweet.... seriously the end was so SWEET! God showed me that HE is GOD!!!!!! Prayerfully one day I can tell the whole story. I’m not sure what my next chapter looks like. But summer 2018 is mine! I’m not quite ready to be back in a corporate setting so I’ll be praying, creating content and living! This is the first time in my life I will be taking some time to pursue my passion full throttle. {Pray for me saints!!}
Now, let’s get back to the original question! What are you believing God for the 2nd half of 2018? What miracles are you praying for? What do you have extreme faith for in this season? Goals seem to be the buzzword when we enter new seasons, both naturally and spiritually. My prayer is that answering these questions will assist you in developing your goals for Q3!
As for me, I’m praying for miracles in my business, miracles in my finance, and miracles for my relationships, and miracles in my health!! I have faith that God will give me tools to assist people in their journeys to wholeness. I’m praying for the strength and tenacity to execute on the level that God has for me. I’m praying that God keeps me in perfect peace as I wait for my husband to find me. Lbvs! These are just a few of my prayers because the list is lengthy! I will, of course, be using my “Goals and Declarations” workbook to track my progress. Be sure to grab yours for free and if you already have one, it’s the perfect time to pull it out and track your progress. Click here for workbook!
Now, let’s get back to the original question! What are you believing God for the 2nd half of 2018? What miracles are you praying for? What do you have extreme faith for in this season? Goals seem to be the buzzword when we enter new seasons, both naturally and spiritually. My prayer is that answering these questions will assist you in developing your goals for Q3!
As for me, I’m praying for miracles in my business, miracles in my finance, and miracles for my relationships, and miracles in my health!! I have faith that God will give me tools to assist people in their journeys to wholeness. I’m praying for the strength and tenacity to execute on the level that God has for me. I’m praying that God keeps me in perfect peace as I wait for my husband to find me. Lbvs! These are just a few of my prayers because the list is lengthy! I will, of course, be using my “Goals and Declarations” workbook to track my progress. Be sure to grab yours for free and if you already have one, it’s the perfect time to pull it out and track your progress. Click here for workbook!
Ephesians 3:20 Amplified Bible (AMP)
Now to Him who is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly more than all that we dare ask or think [infinitely beyond our greatest prayers, hopes, or dreams], according to His power that is at work within us...
Cheers to the future and beyond!!!! May the next 6 months blow your mind as you trust Jesus Christ for more and more!
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All look details can be found on my Instagram for now. Make sure you're following me! www.instagram.com/totallytot3
What are you believing God for this Quarter? What do you have extreme faith for the next 3 months? My life has changed drastical...
Spring 2018 has been eventful to say the least! Here are a few looks served this spring!
These looks are from my latest fave and affordable place, Shein!
I am in love with this wrap dress from Shein! It is the perfect piece for the weather Chicago is having, super hot during the day, with a nice breeze in the evening.
I also love the versatility in this wrap dress! You can catch me this summer wearing it over some shorts or a skirt! Did I mention this is $19??? Cute, comfy, and affordable!
This shirt dress is another versatile piece from Shein! It's giving me festival vibes and can easily be worn with jeans, shorts, or simply as a dress!
Yes, this piece is $18!!!
No need to break the bank on fun pieces this summer.
Lastly, I received these super cute black jeans from Shein! I love love love the details on these jeans and can't wait to wear them! The stretch is amazing but I still had to size up for these.
Looking for fun, easy, and affordable pieces??Check out Shein!!
I received these pieces in exchange for my honest opinion, which is what you will ALWAYS get here on TotallyTot.com!
Spring 2018 has been eventful to say the least! Here are a few looks served this spring! These looks are from my latest fave and affor...
